Today I wanted to talk about "radioactive" people. I coin the term "radioactive" as a nicer way to say someone is desperate. I figure that's a good analogy because being desperate radiates from you in your actions and speech. A friend of mine asked me if she seemed desperate, and in order to be a good friend I had to tell her nicely that she wasn't necessarily desperate, but more "radioactive".
When you are radioactive you ooze clingy and neediness. That's what makes you radioactive. In order to avoid being radioactive one has to:
1. Forget all ambitions of "I absolutely HAVE to find that perfect partner".
2.Any lists comprised complaining [no not listing COMPLAINING] of those perfect attributes one seeks in a partner need to be erased as well. Those lists force one to unconsciously be actively searching for the qualities on the "my perfect mate" list.
3.And finally, to avoid being radioactive BE YOURSELF. Because trust me. Somebody somewhere loves you, and if not, there's always someone who has the potential to. You just have to be open enough to accept them as they would accept you.
That's my word for the day I guess. DON'T BE RADIOACTIVE
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